I was recently asked in an interview, “You’re so confident. Don’t you have any fears?”
LOL. YES. ALL. THE. TIME. I think about my fears CONSTANTLY. Why? Because when fear comes up for me, that’s my signal to myself that something RLY matters to me.
Think about all the most meaningful things you’ve ever accomplished in your life. ALL of them initially scared you to death, right?
That’s why I believe FEAR is a clear indication of what you need to do NEXT. When you counter your fear with COURAGE, you make PROGRESS.
The problem is that far too often people let their fears control them. They feel the doubt, the insecurity, the indecision… and they let those feelings get in the way of them taking the first step. Consequently, they stay in the same place… for days, months, YEARS even. When fear isn’t countered with courage, there is NO PROGRESS. And THAT’S the only thing you should be desperately afraid of.
Still feeling excuses? Let me tell you a story.
I could have made excuses about creating the Flex Your Female SISTERHOOD for you, even though I KNOW it has the power to change your entire life.
My fear told me stories like:
- How could I talk about stepping into your six feminine powers when I sometimes deny my own?
- How can I talk about rewriting your past when I’m still healing myself?
- How can I talk about aligning your vibrations when I still have moments of relying on past versions of myself?
If I had let those fears control me, the sisterhood would never exist. Instead, I looked my fears in the face and said, “step aside, you’re in the way.” That’s when the path opened up for me to create the most impactful program for modern women that there is.
If you don’t embrace your fears, they will control you. When your fears control you, you stay in place (or worse, repeat the past.) And that’s the only thing you should be truly afraid of.
I have a challenge for you. Today, I’d like you to take time alone to sit with your fears. Stare at them deeply, with compassion. See them as your friend. Your friend that’s shining a spotlight on the ways you can grow. Your friend that’s pointing out undeveloped parts of yourself that you need to evolve in order to live the happiest life as the highest version of yourself.
Fear is your friend. Fear is inviting you to take a step toward into what will open up your life. If you don’t take that step, you’re keeping yourself caged in a prison… when the door to that prison is actually wide open.
The Flex Your Female SISTERHOOD is your chance to courageously overcome your fears, with me as your coach and a team of sisters by your side. The program kicks off on May 15. In three months, you could be living the life you really want, or you could be in the exact same place you are today. I don’t know about you, but I think the latter is the only thing you should really be afraid of. If you’re ready to courageously face your fears, here’s your chance.